The Girl Dreamer
Saturday, July 02, 2005
LOVE!!!!!
Finding the right person is very hard and very wrong. It is best to be the right person for the one you love and start from there. You'll always end up disappointed when you set standards and define a "right person" for you... and don't rush things coz somewhere somehow God is preparing somebody for us." Don't be in a hurry to get into a relationship because you can never find love if you insist that you are already into it. Try to find time to really understand your real feelings, to know who you really are, and what you really want in a relationship.
You're right, there's no such thing as a perfect relationship, but there's a compatible partnership that goes along with it. If you already knew that you're too big to fit into a small sized t-shirt, don't give it a try. You'll probably break it and pay for the damages you have made. If you knew and felt that the relationship will not last, don't go deeper into it.
You'll just suffer the consequences and live like hell for the rest of your life. It's really hard to say goodbye though, but you can't make it any better by just pretending you still have the same feelings. Try to let go and give yourself a chance to live life to the fullest. Give yourself a chance to grow and give your heart a much needed attention. Then you will find that you have made the right decision and you made it all by yourself. We call it love when we can't leave someone and see them crying as we try to let go. We are wrong, it's just pity. We call it love when we're too attached and think that losing the one we love will somehow make us weak and unable to face the storms of life. We misunderstood; it's just that we're too much dependent to them.
---from lara sa friendster..kinuha ko kc tinamaan ako eh, halos lahat ng nakasulat dito tama, at yung iba naman, yun yung mga dapat kong gawin at sundin pero hindi ko ginagawa kasi mahirap talagang makalimot, as in sobrang hirap lalo na kung kakagaling mo palang sa unang love relationship between you and a guy..lalo na kung INIWAN KA NG WALA MAN LANG DAHILAN!!! ang bigat bugat, ang hirap hirap at ang sakit sakit..wish ko nga makalimutan na, ilang beses ko na pinipilit pero ayaw parin, ilang beses ko na sinubukan pero wala parin..iwanan ka ba naman kc na walang reason eh, kahit tanungin mo cya ngaun, hindi ka parin nya masasagot kung ano yung dahilan..BWISET TALAGA!!! parang hindi ko tuloy alam ngaun kung minahal nga ba nya ko o hindi..pero gaya nung last sentence dun sa thingy sa taas, nararamdaman ko na ako ang nagmahal ng sobra sa kanya kaysa sa kung pano nya ko minahal kaya ibig sabihin mas marami ang nawala sa kanya and partly, nararamdaman ko na ngaun na tama ang mga kaibigan ko nung sinabi nila na it's his loss.. kasi tama nga naman na wala nang magmamahal sa kanya kung gano ko cya minahal pero meron pang iba dyan na pede kong pagbigyan ng pagmamahal na binigay ko sa kanya..
cge na, hanggang dito nalng, baka bumaha nanaman ng luha dito sa bahay eh, masyado ko nanamang iniisip..haaaay, aaaaahhhh, sana may tumulong sakin na makalimot na para hindi nako mahirapan pa..
>>>seventeen
You're right, there's no such thing as a perfect relationship, but there's a compatible partnership that goes along with it. If you already knew that you're too big to fit into a small sized t-shirt, don't give it a try. You'll probably break it and pay for the damages you have made. If you knew and felt that the relationship will not last, don't go deeper into it.
You'll just suffer the consequences and live like hell for the rest of your life. It's really hard to say goodbye though, but you can't make it any better by just pretending you still have the same feelings. Try to let go and give yourself a chance to live life to the fullest. Give yourself a chance to grow and give your heart a much needed attention. Then you will find that you have made the right decision and you made it all by yourself. We call it love when we can't leave someone and see them crying as we try to let go. We are wrong, it's just pity. We call it love when we're too attached and think that losing the one we love will somehow make us weak and unable to face the storms of life. We misunderstood; it's just that we're too much dependent to them.
We call it love when we give our whole life to them, the wholeness of us and imagined that if they leave, no one would accept us and our past.We are mistaken, its just insecurity. But no matter what the definition is, the truth still remains that love isn't something you can buy or beg. It is real and existing. You can't touch it but you can feel it in your heart. You can't find it, but it will knock before you when you least expect it to come. It can make you the happiest soul in heaven, but don't forget that it can also make you the most miserable person in the whole galaxy.
"When you lose someone... and you think you were the one who loved most, between the two of you... he lost more. For
someday you can love someone the way that you loved him but he will never be loved again the way that you did."
---from lara sa friendster..kinuha ko kc tinamaan ako eh, halos lahat ng nakasulat dito tama, at yung iba naman, yun yung mga dapat kong gawin at sundin pero hindi ko ginagawa kasi mahirap talagang makalimot, as in sobrang hirap lalo na kung kakagaling mo palang sa unang love relationship between you and a guy..lalo na kung INIWAN KA NG WALA MAN LANG DAHILAN!!! ang bigat bugat, ang hirap hirap at ang sakit sakit..wish ko nga makalimutan na, ilang beses ko na pinipilit pero ayaw parin, ilang beses ko na sinubukan pero wala parin..iwanan ka ba naman kc na walang reason eh, kahit tanungin mo cya ngaun, hindi ka parin nya masasagot kung ano yung dahilan..BWISET TALAGA!!! parang hindi ko tuloy alam ngaun kung minahal nga ba nya ko o hindi..pero gaya nung last sentence dun sa thingy sa taas, nararamdaman ko na ako ang nagmahal ng sobra sa kanya kaysa sa kung pano nya ko minahal kaya ibig sabihin mas marami ang nawala sa kanya and partly, nararamdaman ko na ngaun na tama ang mga kaibigan ko nung sinabi nila na it's his loss.. kasi tama nga naman na wala nang magmamahal sa kanya kung gano ko cya minahal pero meron pang iba dyan na pede kong pagbigyan ng pagmamahal na binigay ko sa kanya..
cge na, hanggang dito nalng, baka bumaha nanaman ng luha dito sa bahay eh, masyado ko nanamang iniisip..haaaay, aaaaahhhh, sana may tumulong sakin na makalimot na para hindi nako mahirapan pa..
>>>seventeen
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